Online Dating For Single Men

No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want. If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.

Online Dating is Not a Contest

Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.

What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

Women want a man to be confident…NOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live up to that expectation.

Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all. They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.

Online Dating for Single Men

No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want. If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.

Online Dating Activities

All types of everyday activities are growing in popularity online these days like sharing photos and greeting cards. In fact, both of these even go hand in hand with online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

Before actually meeting in person, many dates get acquainted online first. Here’s how.

Photos - As a wonderful keepsake of your budding romance, create an online photo album for your new cyber-mate. Include digital photos of favorite outdoor scenes, pets, flowers, cars, silly moments, your computer corner or laptop, etc. Then you’ll even have more to discuss during online dates via emails and chat rooms. Search for “photo albums” to find places that store your photos.

Greeting Cards- Regardless of where the person lives, you can mail a greeting card. If privacy and security is an issue, check into renting an inexpensive P.O. Box (check the Yellow Pages). You do not have to be an artist to make something homemade and special for the new friend in your life. Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your date that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand. Search your favorite search engine for online greeting cards to send, too. They range from free to low cost and can be sent in a click.

So get online and get active! No need to risk meeting in person until you get more familiar with each other online first. So take the online plunge!

Online Dating Can Be Tough

Here’s a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys: Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Are you surprised? It’s true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages, too. That’s true for internet dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.

Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.

Remember…confident and interesting….and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered. It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of that…so don’t insult her intelligence. Remember….exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.

Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.

Nice Guys Do It, Too!

I’m talking about online dating, of course. When the phenomenon of online dating sites started several years ago, they were a haven for perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdoes of assorted varieties.

That is just no longer the case. All the stigma of online dating is gone. Online dating has gone main stream and is, not only acceptable, but expected. Online dating has become the primary tool of single people of all ages to generate an interesting and rewarding social life.

Let’s face it…we are busy guys. We just simply do not have the time, the energy, or the financial where-with-all to date several nights each week while we look for the “one”. You can sort through hundreds of profiles in a month for less money than you would spend on one evening out, thus, saving time and money. We use the internet to save ourselves time and money for a lot of things like investments, shopping, medical information, and communications.

Why not make use of such a useful tool for our social and personal lives as well? You could find the love of your life. At the very least, you will meet some interesting people and possibly make some lasting friendships. It’s easy to get started. All you need is a computer and an internet connection. You’ll need to search for online dating services that meet your specific needs. They are many and varied.

Join one or two. Then you’ll need to write a great profile, upload a recent picture of yourself and start making and answering contacts. That really is all there is to it…that and patience.

Don’t wait any longer to start your new and interesting social life. Miss or Ms. “Right” could be only a few clicks of the mouse away.

A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

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Ask the Right Questions First

OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.

Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.

Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.

A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

Popular Online Dating Activities For Men

Heads up, gents. Online dating can open up new doors of opportunities with a little help from real world dating tips that work. Spice up your matchmaking with some of these ideas.

Looks Count
Comment on how attractive she is. Yes, women do want to know they are pretty, even if they’re online and you can’t see them and have no idea. So in your communications, ask questions that would help you know, but in an unobtrusive way like – how do you wear your hair? And then say how attractive that must look.

Kindness Counts
Point out nice things or the lemonade in life – nice things the other person has mentioned, nice acts the person has done, good things on the news latterly, etc. Be upbeat, and forget those lemons in life. Even in email a person can shout, by using all capital letters. So show manners and kindness. Keep swearing, unkind remarks, prejudice, etc. out of your communications. And “do unto others….”

So add some helpful real-world tips that do work (a lot of the time anyway) into your online dating equations. And come up on the positive side of romance – and enjoy more lemonade!

More Popular Online Dating Activities

A couple of popular online activities are sharing recipes and bidding at auctions. And both of these easily fit well into online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

To help many dates get better acquainted online, here’s what potential cyber-dates do.

Sharing Recipes – People get tired talking about the weather. So a popular subject to turn to is food. Sharing favorite foods and recipes helps break the ice and even forms friendships over culinary skills – or lack of – and tastes. Search your favorite search engine for “free recipes” to share. Take photos of your culinary creations and share them with your date, too.

Bidding at Auctions – Ebay auctions sell nearly anything and everything! So surf around and enter searches like the dates you were in middle school. Share cool memorabilia photos of old games and toys from when you were a child or when your parents or grandparents were little; The Dating Game, Oscar Mayer wiener whistles, The Partridge Family Album, Bobby Sherman’s Album, 45’s and more.

Online dating can be an educational and fun experience. So learn more about each other and have fun while you’re at it. Take a cyber-stroll down memory lane together and see what’s cookin’.

Growing Online Dating Relationships

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.

1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.

4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

Online Relationships - Dating Advice

When you feel like nobody who lives near you will do when it comes to dating, the good news is that there is a whole world of people out there waiting to meet you! Online dating has become very popular because it takes the stress out of dating and makes it easy to meet people from all over the world. Below you will find some online relationship dating advice that will help you get started.

The first piece of online relationship dating advice is to join several dating sites. Many of them are free and by joining several of them you will have access to a wider variety of people who may share your interests.

Fill out your profile thoroughly. Make sure to fill in all of your interests as well as your likes and dislikes when it comes to the opposite sex. This will help you ensure that you are only attracting the right type of people to your profile, and not people that you wouldn't normally date. Be honest in your profile.

When talking to people, it is important that you be yourself. You don't want to give someone the wrong impression in case you do end up having feelings with this person and wanting to meet face to face. Don't lie about your age, gender, job, appearance, or anything else when you are dating online.

Ask plenty of questions to the people you speak with. This is the only way you will get to know them properly, so make sure that you ask all of the questions that really matter to you in a relationship.

Online relationship dating advice doesn't end here, but this should be a good beginning of what you should be doing when you are meeting people on the Internet. Keep an open mind and someone you can love is sure to come along.

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Picking Up Women - Reading Body Language

With the confidence and the correct approach it won't really matter if she is interested in you or not, you can always fix that. But, some guys just can't read the signs that are often clear as a bell, if you know what to look for.

I am a watcher. A watcher of people and the way they move, the way they interact with people. It's a lot of fun to watch the exchanges in a bar between a man and a woman. With the little tell tale body language signs below you can watch as I do and know if the guy has a shot or not.

Lips:
• Huge radiant smiles with her teeth on display
• Lip biting or if she lets you see her tongue, licking of the lips or touching the front teeth
• Wetting her lips, either upper or lower it doesn't matter
• This may sound odd but if she puts her fingernail between her teeth
• Thrusting her breasts and lips forward

Eyes:
• Gazing deep into your eyes with dilated pupils
• An eyebrow raise for a few seconds followed by a smile with eye contact
• Winking. Either while talking with you or from a distance
• Blinking more often than usual and flittering her eyelashes
• Raising and then lowering her eyebrows followed by a smile

Hair:
• Brushing her fingers through her hair
• While looking at you, she twirls her hair around her finger
• Tossing her hair back off of her shoulders

Clothing:
• A little more than normal leg exposure
• If she adjust her clothing to make sure she looks perfect

Seated:
• She dances in her seat while making eye contact
• You notice while sitting up that her muscles appear to be firm
• If she sits with her legs open
• Exposing some thigh while sitting with her legs crossed

Hands:
• An exposed palm of her hand facing you
• Resting an elbow in the palm of her hand while talking to you and holder out the other hand palm facing up
• Rubbing her wrists up and down
• While sitting, if she has one hand touching on of her breasts
• If she touches her cheek or rubs her chin
• Her hands are busily playing with items on the table or in her hand
• Stroking and pulling on her necklace if she is wearing one
• If she touches you while speaking
• As you pass by her she pretends to look at her watch

Voice:
• Raising or lowering her voice volume to match your own
• Slowing down or speeding up her speaking to match your own
• Laughing when you are laughing
• While in a crowd she only has her eyes on you and disregards the rest of the room


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Dating Tips For Shy Guys - Take Control of Your Life

The first thing that you really need to understand is that its not unnatural to be shy. Everyone, even the most extroverted guys often suffer from shyness or embarrassment even if they don't make it obvious. People often think that I'm being harsh when I give out dating tips for shy guys, but that's never my intention. You see, sometimes you need to give out a bit of tough love to shy people. I know, because I used to be incredibly shy until I met someone who's become a firm friend and they gave me the same advice I'm giving you now. Basically, everyone has the ability within them to be outgoing and confident, but sometimes its hard to let that break of through their outer defenses. And very often shyness is just that - a defense mechanism.

Shyness is often seen as a sign of weakness and neediness, but most of the time that's a complete misconception. Unfortunately, many women don't see this, when they see a shy guy, they perceive someone who's weak and a bit of a pathetic creature. But that's not you right? Of course its not, so you need to put them straight.

One good indicator of shyness is a guys body language, often it can look weak. One of my major tips for shy guys is to adjust your posture. Its old advice but its sound advice, don't slouch, straighten up, look people in the eye. Don't be afraid to walk proud and talk with authority, if you project a feeling of strength women will respect that.

Next, be more confident and assertive. You don't need to start ordering people about, most women hate that in any case, and don't become aggressive. Bizarrely, being outwardly aggressive can actually make you seem weaker, not stronger - just think 'small man syndrome' and you will understand what I mean.

The last of my tips for shy guys is to become more confident. Do things on a daily basis that you know you are good at, no matter how small or insignificant they may seem. This will build your self belief. Every once in a while tackle something you are uncomfortable with, when you succeed in this new task, your confidence will take a huge leap. Remember, practice makes perfect.

Just get out there and start taking control of situations. Women will adore you for this and respect you immensely, and this in turn will make you feel better. After all success breeds success as they say.


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Online Dating - 10 Rules Everyone Should Know

Online dating is an exciting frontier, filled with possibilities around every corner - but before you begin returning those enticing emails, there are 10 rules you should abide by.

Your love life may be stalled for a number of reasons. A recently ended relationship might leave you stranded with a condensed social circle and feelings of loneliness. You might have experienced a recent change, like a divorce, graduating from college, or moving to a new city. No matter what the circumstance, it is hard to meet new people. Enter the world of online dating - full of variety, spice, and excitement. If you're new to the online dating scene, there are several things that everyone should know.

1. Plan ahead

Are you looking to just spend some time entertaining yourself in chat rooms? Looking for someone to hang out with on the weekends? Seeking a one night stand? Trying to find Mr. or Ms. Right? Determine your goals for online dating and stick to them - otherwise you might hurt the feelings of others or find yourself scraping up the pieces of another failed relationship.

2. Ask your friends

Online dating and chat rooms are standard tools for people of all walks of life looking for love or a little fun. Ask your friends what sites have worked for them in the past. Trust the opinions of those you already know rather than choosing a service at random.

3. Start slow

You may need to spend some time in chat rooms, email correspondence, or even via the telephone before you feel comfortable enough to meet someone. Take your time - there is no rush! Enjoy the process and embrace the excitement.

4. Tell the truth!

If you really want to experience success with online dating, you must be honest. While you cannot control the actions of others, maintaining accountability to yourself will thwart the temptation to attach someone else's picture to your profile or lie about your past.

5. Organize and prioritize

Online dating can be overwhelming. It's a lot easier to browse profiles of individuals that you know are looking for a relationship than to strike up a conversation with someone at the bar. Choose a few of the most interesting profiles, take notes, and limit yourself to corresponding with them at first. You can always look again if they don't work out, and this will avoid too much activity and confusing emotions.

6. Don't believe everything you see or read

If he or she sounds too good to be true, it's very possible that you're looking at a bad egg. Take your time getting to know someone. Check their story. If you have arrived to the point where personal information has been revealed, there are ways you can verify details. If a person claims they work at the local community college, you can check the phone directory for their name. Public record is a valuable resource!

7. Chat room etiquette

That old adage "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" still applies to online dating. Chat rooms often give people a sense of invincibility. When the fingers start flying, things tend to move fast and have the potential to get steamy. Stop. Think. If you wouldn't say it to a complete stranger face-to-face, don't say it at all.

8. Paying for an online dating service might not be so bad

Websites that charge for entering chat rooms or making an online dating profile may turn you off at first glance. You might feel embarrassed or afraid to shell out hard earned money to a dating website; however, you can rest assured that if someone is willing to make the investment it costs to participate in online dating circles, it's possible that they are very serious and willing to go the extra mile for you!

9. Be available

Don't have access to the internet everyday? This might cause problems in the online dating world. Those who try this method of socialization like to think they'll receive quick responses. Be available, consider setting aside a specific time to spend in the chat room, and respond to emails in a timely fashion. Otherwise, you might find your potentials losing interest.

10. Safety first, second, and third

When you've gathered your confidence and found somebody you want to meet face-to-face, remember that you don't know what to expect. Meet in a public place. Drive your own car so that you can maintain control of your environment, and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Even if the first date leads to a second, or third, keep in mind that you've only just met, and there is no need to rush.


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Expert Tips For Great Dating Ideas

First date ideas

1. The most important part of a first date is getting to know each other. Plan your date in a way so the environment allows for easy conversation. Don't arrange your first date where there is a noisy atmosphere such as a night club, pub or concert.

2. Arrange to meet somewhere where you are the focus. If your first date is focused on an event where there are distractions, neither of you will get the chance to assess each others true personality. Give yourself the best chance to show off your charm and wisdom.

3. When you are dating someone for the first time, make sure its during the day. A non pressured environment like a quiet park or the beach will work just fine.

Moving onto a second date.

4. So, your first date was fabulous and your already planning your next date. Now is the time to introduce some intimacy and a sexier atmosphere. The local wine bar and dinner will give any potential romance the chance to unfold.

5. Make sure when your dating someone for the second time its done at night. A romantic evening opens the door to intimacy, flirting, and all going well, a kiss at the end of the night.

Perfect second date: Friday night after a long week at work will ensure you both look forward to each others company after hitting it off on your first date. Start to open up to each other with cocktails and conversation on the terrace of bar or restaurant over looking the city skyline or beach. Perhaps move on to a Jazz bar, or go dancing at a busy club then move off the dance floor and get cozy in a quiet corner of the club.

If you like this person enough to be seen together as a couple, take them somewhere that's well thought out and informal. Find out what they love to do and treat them to a surprise. Send her flowers at work, offer to cook him his favourite meal, at his house.

Dating someone and discovering there is real chemistry is one of the best feelings anyone can experience. Whilst the singles scene is great fun for a while, nothing beats becoming part of a new and exciting romantic relationship.

If you are stuck for ideas on where to meet other great singles and have not tried online dating, you are truly missing out on what is now the most popular means of matchmaking in the world. Everyday, thousands of singles are connecting through online dating sites. Avoid bad first dates and get to know someone through online dating before meeting in person and remove all the guess work.

All the latest in singles online dating news and articles Online dating singles chat rooms All about having fun online and meeting new people.

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A Boost for Dating Serices in Malaysia

Malaysia government is officially asking NGOs to launch dating or cupid services for single women so that single mothers can find suitable partners. This idea was mooted by Malaysia’s Women, Family and Community Development Minister Shahrizat Abdul Jalil recently.

According to her, the ministry is not going to setup cupid or dating services but she sees no problem in supporting such idea because it does not go against the customs or religious beliefs.

I just hope this is not a one-person idea but a collective idea from the government as a whole. Sharizat might be an open-minded and liberal woman but she needs to work extra hard to win support from her subordinates when presenting idea which is quite a contrary to the general norms in Malaysia.

5 Traits That Women Look For in Men

This is the question that has been putting men in anxiety for generations. The answer to this question might not be very easy to find. But look no further. Here are a few things that they want in their man.

Confidence

This is the most important trait that women look for in men. Would you like to go out with someone who has no self confidence? I don't think so. Neither would any lady. So buck up, take charge and try to be cool and confident. But remember not to overdo it.

Sense of Humor

Being shallow and colorless really won't help you. So get those funny bones in gear or else you're going to bore her to death the entire time. And you don't really want to do that, do you?

Attention

Now this isn't asking for much. If you were talking with a lady and she didn't really bother to listen to what you were saying, would you feel very good? I'm sure the answer would be no. So it's important not to do the same to her.

Listen, converse and continue with a conversation. Don't turn the conversation into one about the weather. Talk about something interesting, something that the both of you like.

Respect

Treat her as your equal not as a "woman". Respect her for who she is. Don't try and point out her mistakes or try and tell her what you think she should be like. That sends out a negative vibe.

Loyalty and Faithfulness

The most important and for some men the most difficult part of a relationship is to be faithful and trustworthy. You need to show her that she really means a lot to you and that she can trust you a hundred per cent. Always try not to lie in a relationship.

So now you know what ladies actually look for. Try to acquire these qualities and work on them. This will really take you a long way in a relationship. After all every woman wants a man with a good character and a man who is a good human being.

Next you will want to know how to approach a woman and start dating right now.

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Advice on How Often to Call Him - Dating Tips For Women

As women we sometimes wish we could wave a magic wand and magically have our man behave like a lovesick puppy. Relationships can be so completely complicated and it's very confusing not knowing what exactly you should and shouldn't be doing. We all just really want one thing and that's a strong, healthy and fulfilling relationship with a man who is crazy about us. There's a lot of nonsense to wade through before you get to the good parts of any dating relationship though and one of those areas that is something of a puzzle to most women is calling men. We all have plenty of questions including how often to call him, when to call him back and what to say if we have to leave a voicemail.

The issue of how often to call him seems more confusing than it actually is. The biggest mistake that many women make when it comes to the telephone and their man is they call him way too often. Consider how often you call him compared to how often he is the one doing the calling. If you call him more frequently than he calls you, you're calling him too much. Women set a pattern early in their relationships in this area. If you are always calling him, he will not call you. Men just don't see a reason to call if you're already doing the calling, so stop.

Once you stop calling as often he'll start and then the question of when to call him back becomes more pressing. If you miss his call, and you should sometimes, don't ever call him back too quickly. You want at least a bit of time to pass between the moment when he leaves a message and you call him back. Even if he never says it, he'll label you as desperate if you return his call too soon. Let him sit and wait for you. Men may not admit it, but they love when their woman plays a little hard to get. It will only make him want you more.

You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. For more answers to the age old question of when you should and shouldn't be calling the man in your life, visit this helpful site.

You may think that there's no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they'll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when the perfect time to contact him is so that he'll find you irresistible.

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Successful Dating - Tips For Successful Dating

One of the primary problems which haunt people in a relationship is the lack of effective listening. Most relationships go sour because one or the other partner does not pay attention to the needs of the other. This is very necessary if you want to have successful dating. There are different people with different expectations from successful dating. Some people might want marriage as the ultimate goal while others might just want moving in as the aim. Whatever be it, successful dating requires effective listening for it to be taken to the next level. A huge number of relationships go sour even when the two people love each other due to the absence of listening.

Many couples might have experienced the following problem. When you go through a problem, you are ready to confide in anyone, be it a family member, a friend or a random stranger who you met at the bar but not in your partner. Many problems arise from this fit of insanity. Most couples fail to realize this but it happens more often than you think. This lack of effective communication is the bane of most relationships which had the potential of going further. With effective communication, even the most mismatched couple can have a healthy and successful dating life.

The reasons why most people do not confide in their partners are unknown. There is some subconscious aspect of a relationship which prevents people from spilling their guts out in front of the person whom they love the most. But this should not be the way of handling things. It is better to confide in your partner so that you are able to solve problems together. This is very successful in bringing you together. If you are not comfortable confiding in your partner, then it is probably not a serious relationship which you are in. But if you think that you care for the person, then make a conscious effort to convey the same to the person.

Successful dating is not only about having fun together but also spending those moments together when either one of you is feeling low. Spending time together when there is some problem is a great way of bonding and is often stronger than being there in times of fun. More often than not, people who come together in times of trouble go a long way in having a successful dating life.

Successful dating is for anyone. If you've found that relationships haven't worked out for you in the past it may be time to get some help from the professionals. Professional matchmakers have the ability to assist you in finding the love of your life. They've seen many people, in many relationships and know what makes some work and others not. You can meet a professional matchmaker for a free consultation and see if they are a good fit for you. A professional matchmaker can help you find lasting love for life.


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Dating Advice For Older Men With Younger Women

Lucky you! You are an older men with a younger woman!Your family are probably amazed and your friends are jealous.You are the envy of everyone around you and you cannot believe how fortunate you are. You keep catching your reflection with a big grin no your face. And rightly so, because dating a younger woman can be a very rewarding thing, if you know a few things upfront.

Keep an open mind. Your young lady will no doubt share with you her music tastes, try and see it through her eyes. There is a whole world out there for you to see, with different styles and icons, different experiences. Your younger woman will share her world with you, and you can return the favour. Show her your favourite music, but be aware that she may not have heard of them! She may well learn to love them as much as you do.

The bigger the gap in years, the bigger the gap in life experience. If there is a very large age gap between an older man and a younger girlfriend, then it can be easy to slip into treating your young woman like a child. Do your best not to do this, because it will kill the romance of the relationship. If it is only a few years then the gap is smaller and although there will still be differences, they will be less noticeable and less troublesome.

With an older man and a younger woman, often the young woman will be more health conscious, which may mean a new diet and exercise plan for you! You owe it to her go give it a try. After all, her youth is important to her, and she will try to stretch it out for as many years as possible. She is your partner and probably wants you around for as long as possible also, which is why she will encourage you to get fitter. Plus, you want to be able to keep up with your younger woman don't you?

Sometimes an age gap can be a useful thing. Women do mature more quickly than men, so your younger woman may feel more like settling down than many women of her age. If you are an older man, you may well have sown your wild oats and want to settle down also. These are things that you maybe do have in common. However, if you have recently come out of a long term relationship and are not ready to settle down, be sure to communicate this to your younger woman - she will appreciate this and it will help to keep the lines of communication open.

At the end of the day, age is simply a number. There are mature younger women and there are young feeling older men.

The chemistry is all important, more important than age. Keep communicating and having fun, whatever the age.

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Dating Older - A Different Spin on Older Dating

So here you are. You have found yourself in the world of mature dating and are wondering just how to navigate your way through to the person you are looking for. There will be many pitfalls, pit stops, failures, thoughts of success and all types of sporadic events that will get you to thinking that maybe this older dating thing just isn't for you.

Well the first thing you want to do is to get it in your head that older dating is going to be a very interesting journey but it isn't one that you can't enjoy. For once try enjoying the entire process of mature dating and all that comes with it. This will keep you in the positive frame of mind and help you to move through the rough patches of older dating.

If you keep a positive outlook you are most certainly going to meet your ideal partner and maybe even quicker than if you were to negatively move through the older dating world scowling at every failure you encounter. Staying positive has it's own little way of putting a spin on older dating but there are two other ways that can put a different spin on older dating. Try getting help from the professionals. You can try to visit some online older dating websites or calling up a matchmaker and letting them do all the work.

I'm certain you are wondering about the online mature dating websites, but they do exist. There are online dating websites that cater to all types of daters. Therefore, it will not be hard for you to find a long list of online dating websites that you can choose from. You can even sign up for all of them if you want. Whatever floats your boat.

However you choose to go about using the online mature dating websites will depend on you and your situation. You may find that you will want to simply browse at the others that are older dating and see what is out there. You may find that you want to create your own older dating profile so that the other members can find you. You may even find that you would like to do a more detailed search that caters to your needs and then invite a few people to a private chat session. Whatever you decide, online dating websites are certain to give you a different spin on mature dating.

As if online dating websites aren't enough to get you to where you want to go, you can also use the services of a matchmaker. A matchmaker may fee la little more personal as they will be there win constant communication with you through out the entire mature dating process. They will meet with you to get to know you a little better so that they can pair you with the right types of people that you would enjoy. They will continue to provide you with potential dates until you are satisfied and in a growing, happy relationship.


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Older Woman Younger Men Tips

The reasons why older women want younger men are plentiful. For one, if you are an older woman, you are probably sick and tired of the same old thing and just want something new. Secondly, you may find that younger men are seemingly a lot happier and free. But, if you are an older woman who wants to know how to catch a younger man, then you have come to the right place.

Given below are some older woman younger men dating tips you may find useful:

Older Woman Younger Men Dating Tip #1:

1. The first way to catch the attention of a younger man is to appear confident. If you are out at a bar or club he visits regularly and you see him there, smile and remain positive. Always act as if you are having a really good time. All men love a woman who is confident and sure of herself. As a matter of fact, most men prefer that over everything else. There is nothing worse to a guy than a woman who seems insecure and unsure of herself.

Cougar Dating Tip #2:

2. Do not lie about your age. Believe it or not, most guys do not care about your age. As long as he views you as beautiful and seems interested in you, there is no reason to worry. However, remain mature and have conversations with him away from his friends. The younger a guy is, the more guys he is likely to have around him. It will be more comfortable for the both of you if you can sit down at a table or talk over dinner about your interests, likes, dislikes, etc. The ability to still have things in common despite your age or background is what will make your relationship work.

Mature Women Dating Tip #3:

3. The fact that the guy you are interested in is younger says a lot about him. For one, he is more likely to be a lot more spontaneous than the same-age guys you are used to being around. He is also going to be a lot more full of energy and surprises. It is best to remain cool and confident about the fact that once you have started dating that he is yours. Never doubt for a second that he is going to leave you for someone younger. Just be yourself.

Dating Younger Men Tip #4:

4. Since you are older, you are going to have a tendency to act your age. Never treat a younger guy like a child. There is nothing he will dislike more. The last thing a younger man needs is another mom and he may even tell you this if he catches you trying to tell him what to do. The only way to keep a younger guy is to show him the same amount of respect you would to an older guy. It may be hard not to correct him, but you must not forget that he is younger.

Dating a younger man is what you make of it. There is a always a way to get what you want, especially in relation to obtaining a younger man. If you are older, then you already know what works and what doesn't. Having that sort of knowledge is the sheer beauty of it all. Taking these simple pieces of advice is what will make it last.


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The Man of Your Dreams - How to Make Him Really Want You

Are you attracted to a great guy who isn't paying you the right kind of attention? Do you want to know how to make him really want you? Is the man of your dreams not as interested in you as you would like? Most women today come from a generation that has not been taught how to create desire in a man. You may have learned ways of behaving that are out of date, and that no longer work. If you know a great guy and you want him to really desire you then read on!

Men of today are looking for a different type of woman than they were in previous times. Men still admire qualities that were popular in the 1950's when women cooked, sewed and created a warm and welcoming home for their family. But today men are also looking for women who are financially independent, have interest in current affairs and exude self-confidence and good humour. Men look for different qualities in a potential partner than they used to. They want a woman who is smart, attractive and confident. Women now face bigger challenge when trying to impress a man and they need to look more deeply to figure out what a man wants in a partner.

The ways that men and women interact have also changed. Years ago there was a clear pattern of dating, courting and officially recognizing a relationship. Everyone understood what was expected of each partner. But now things are not so clear. There are many different types of relationships, family expectations, beliefs and ways of meeting men. Women have many more choices today and that means we have to spend time analysing men to understand what will attract them and what will turn them off.

As a woman you are familiar with shopping, make up, perfume and all the things we do to attract a man. But communication with him can seem really difficult at times. How can you understand what he is thinking if he won't talk you about it? All you really need to do to understand him is pay attention to the things that interest him. What does he get excited about? What makes him laugh? What is it about women that he finds attractive? Men expect that you understand them even when they don't talk about things. So just start paying close attention to how he reacts to things and you will learn more about how to make him really want you.

Knowing how his mind works and what he finds attractive is the key to making him desire you. You need to still be yourself and be confident, but highlight those things about yourself that he will enjoy. Get him to talk about things that he is interested in and spend tine with him so you can understand him better. This is an easier way than constantly asking him what he likes as men don't like being questioned. Just pay close attention, act on what you learn and it won't be long before you make him really want you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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