OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.
After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.
Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.
Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.
Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.
First Thing First
So, now comes the next question. Where do you "cast your fishing rods"? Apparently, you have to cast them into the "water". But hang on, don't just take my word for it. There are lots and lots of so-called professional matchmaking sites out there who are only interested in your money. So be smart. Do your due diligence before committing yourself to any matchmaking service.
Well, here's the good news. Below I have classified some of the reputable companies who have years of experience in the matchmaking and dating business. I list them in the order of preference. No 1 being the best preferred choice.
Here's a tip for you. Always start free. Try and evaluate their services first. If you think that the services are up to your expectation, then and only then you decide for yourself whether it is worthwhile for you to invest your money in their services.
By the way, I will regularly updates this blog with up-to-date tips on dating. So come back often.
Wish you all the best!
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