First Thing First

The first thing you need to know is that dating is a number game - the more expose you are, the higher the possibility that you find what you are looking for. It's very much like fishing in the sea, the more fishing rods you cast, the higher the chances for you to catch any fish. Hence the term "fish dating".

So, now comes the next question. Where do you "cast your fishing rods"? Apparently, you have to cast them into the "water". But hang on, don't just take my word for it. There are lots and lots of so-called professional matchmaking sites out there who are only interested in your money. So be smart. Do your due diligence before committing yourself to any matchmaking service.

Well, here's the good news. Below I have classified some of the reputable companies who have years of experience in the matchmaking and dating business. I list them in the order of preference. No 1 being the best preferred choice.

Here's a tip for you. Always start free. Try and evaluate their services first. If you think that the services are up to your expectation, then and only then you decide for yourself whether it is worthwhile for you to invest your money in their services.

By the way, I will regularly updates this blog with up-to-date tips on dating. So come back often.

Wish you all the best!

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4.9.09

Online Relationships - Dating Advice

When you feel like nobody who lives near you will do when it comes to dating, the good news is that there is a whole world of people out there waiting to meet you! Online dating has become very popular because it takes the stress out of dating and makes it easy to meet people from all over the world. Below you will find some online relationship dating advice that will help you get started.

The first piece of online relationship dating advice is to join several dating sites. Many of them are free and by joining several of them you will have access to a wider variety of people who may share your interests.

Fill out your profile thoroughly. Make sure to fill in all of your interests as well as your likes and dislikes when it comes to the opposite sex. This will help you ensure that you are only attracting the right type of people to your profile, and not people that you wouldn't normally date. Be honest in your profile.

When talking to people, it is important that you be yourself. You don't want to give someone the wrong impression in case you do end up having feelings with this person and wanting to meet face to face. Don't lie about your age, gender, job, appearance, or anything else when you are dating online.

Ask plenty of questions to the people you speak with. This is the only way you will get to know them properly, so make sure that you ask all of the questions that really matter to you in a relationship.

Online relationship dating advice doesn't end here, but this should be a good beginning of what you should be doing when you are meeting people on the Internet. Keep an open mind and someone you can love is sure to come along.

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3.9.09

Picking Up Women - Reading Body Language

With the confidence and the correct approach it won't really matter if she is interested in you or not, you can always fix that. But, some guys just can't read the signs that are often clear as a bell, if you know what to look for.

I am a watcher. A watcher of people and the way they move, the way they interact with people. It's a lot of fun to watch the exchanges in a bar between a man and a woman. With the little tell tale body language signs below you can watch as I do and know if the guy has a shot or not.

Lips:
• Huge radiant smiles with her teeth on display
• Lip biting or if she lets you see her tongue, licking of the lips or touching the front teeth
• Wetting her lips, either upper or lower it doesn't matter
• This may sound odd but if she puts her fingernail between her teeth
• Thrusting her breasts and lips forward

Eyes:
• Gazing deep into your eyes with dilated pupils
• An eyebrow raise for a few seconds followed by a smile with eye contact
• Winking. Either while talking with you or from a distance
• Blinking more often than usual and flittering her eyelashes
• Raising and then lowering her eyebrows followed by a smile

Hair:
• Brushing her fingers through her hair
• While looking at you, she twirls her hair around her finger
• Tossing her hair back off of her shoulders

Clothing:
• A little more than normal leg exposure
• If she adjust her clothing to make sure she looks perfect

Seated:
• She dances in her seat while making eye contact
• You notice while sitting up that her muscles appear to be firm
• If she sits with her legs open
• Exposing some thigh while sitting with her legs crossed

Hands:
• An exposed palm of her hand facing you
• Resting an elbow in the palm of her hand while talking to you and holder out the other hand palm facing up
• Rubbing her wrists up and down
• While sitting, if she has one hand touching on of her breasts
• If she touches her cheek or rubs her chin
• Her hands are busily playing with items on the table or in her hand
• Stroking and pulling on her necklace if she is wearing one
• If she touches you while speaking
• As you pass by her she pretends to look at her watch

Voice:
• Raising or lowering her voice volume to match your own
• Slowing down or speeding up her speaking to match your own
• Laughing when you are laughing
• While in a crowd she only has her eyes on you and disregards the rest of the room


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30.8.09

Dating Tips For Shy Guys - Take Control of Your Life

The first thing that you really need to understand is that its not unnatural to be shy. Everyone, even the most extroverted guys often suffer from shyness or embarrassment even if they don't make it obvious. People often think that I'm being harsh when I give out dating tips for shy guys, but that's never my intention. You see, sometimes you need to give out a bit of tough love to shy people. I know, because I used to be incredibly shy until I met someone who's become a firm friend and they gave me the same advice I'm giving you now. Basically, everyone has the ability within them to be outgoing and confident, but sometimes its hard to let that break of through their outer defenses. And very often shyness is just that - a defense mechanism.

Shyness is often seen as a sign of weakness and neediness, but most of the time that's a complete misconception. Unfortunately, many women don't see this, when they see a shy guy, they perceive someone who's weak and a bit of a pathetic creature. But that's not you right? Of course its not, so you need to put them straight.

One good indicator of shyness is a guys body language, often it can look weak. One of my major tips for shy guys is to adjust your posture. Its old advice but its sound advice, don't slouch, straighten up, look people in the eye. Don't be afraid to walk proud and talk with authority, if you project a feeling of strength women will respect that.

Next, be more confident and assertive. You don't need to start ordering people about, most women hate that in any case, and don't become aggressive. Bizarrely, being outwardly aggressive can actually make you seem weaker, not stronger - just think 'small man syndrome' and you will understand what I mean.

The last of my tips for shy guys is to become more confident. Do things on a daily basis that you know you are good at, no matter how small or insignificant they may seem. This will build your self belief. Every once in a while tackle something you are uncomfortable with, when you succeed in this new task, your confidence will take a huge leap. Remember, practice makes perfect.

Just get out there and start taking control of situations. Women will adore you for this and respect you immensely, and this in turn will make you feel better. After all success breeds success as they say.


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