People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.
You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.
First Thing First
So, now comes the next question. Where do you "cast your fishing rods"? Apparently, you have to cast them into the "water". But hang on, don't just take my word for it. There are lots and lots of so-called professional matchmaking sites out there who are only interested in your money. So be smart. Do your due diligence before committing yourself to any matchmaking service.
Well, here's the good news. Below I have classified some of the reputable companies who have years of experience in the matchmaking and dating business. I list them in the order of preference. No 1 being the best preferred choice.
Here's a tip for you. Always start free. Try and evaluate their services first. If you think that the services are up to your expectation, then and only then you decide for yourself whether it is worthwhile for you to invest your money in their services.
By the way, I will regularly updates this blog with up-to-date tips on dating. So come back often.
Wish you all the best!
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